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Expectations

Just because you love someone don't think you can posses them. Love is not about possession but appreciation. If you believe that someone loves you, don't rush into concluding that. Don't try to play with their feelings. Don't make them fight for your attention. Because, if you yet don't know, be sure that love dies. Just be yourself and do the right thing. let everything flourish to its perfection and let the love grow. Don't kill it. If you are treated like a fool, don't try to prove how brave you are, or how many grades you attained in the education level. Well, you can be sad but just a little. Don't put yourself down. Instead just play along. Let fools fool themselves. But be brave enough to run away. Who is worth your attention when they don't treat you the way you deserve? If you are afraid that you might not fulfill someones expectations. If you are always trying to tell how imperfect you are. If you are always the one on the negativity. Then be rest assured that you will be left behind. Tell me, what do you expect from someone if you are the one praising yourself? what do you need to be told if you keep showing how much attention you want? Instead be confident about yourself. Say you will make it even if you don't see it coming through. Accept yourself then others will see the good in you. Don't push people away. If in a relationship you feel your partner is greater than you. Don't try to pull them down to your knees by hurting them with words. It only means you can not handle them. That is a dangerous relationship. They must flee away from you

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